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What Am I? (Not Being Offensive)?

I’ve been told I’m everything from bisexual to transgender to crossdresser and more. I’m just wondering that I am "defined" as in LGBT terminology.

I’m male. I’m pansexual. I enjoy wearing women’s clothes like dresses and having long hair (waist length). Most people tell me I look like a girl regarldess of what I wear or my hair style. I’ve been called Miss on the phone and in public numerous times (even when I had a crew cut). I just don’t believe in gender roles very much so I don’t see long hair or dresses as being feminine. I don’t have the desire to be a woman or a man. Though I do enjoy being perceived more as a woman than a man in society and I enjoy looking "womanly", I have no desire to wear bras or get breast implants or sexual reassignment surgery. I enjoying having my penis. So I don’t know what I qualify as in terms of being transgender or just gender blind or whatever? Please no mean comments. Thank you.
I don’t care if a person I’m with is a man or woman. I don’t think gender matters. I wasn’t raised with strong gender role ideals (I grew up in a commune where adults and children were equal, gender didn’t have a bearing on anything you did, and no job/image/clothes was assigned or associated with men over women or women over men). So it’s been a bit of a culture shock since I left my community to go to college and where people can be very judgemental.


5 Responses to “What Am I? (Not Being Offensive)?”

  1. ? says:

    I totally felt like like I was reading my life story here. Except, I was born female. I am pansexual as well. I enjoy dressing as a man and sometimes a women. I don’t mind my genetalia. It’s really hard to classify people like us. I feel like calling a cross dresser is down grading, the beauty of who you really are. I would just say you’re very open minded, and that’s about all I can think of.

  2. Vee says:

    I think your a bisexual male with a feminine side. That’s what I’d tell ‘em. :)

  3. BigEq says:

    I would go with cross dresser.

    Do you like men or women for sex?

    If you like men Gay if you like women then straight but still a cross dresser.

    There is nothing wrong with liking women s clothes it is just a little odd to normal straight humans.

  4. Aj Simmons says:

    I’m gonna say gender queer. its where you don’t define yourself as one gender or the other. you’re ok with being male and female and your ok with dating males and females.

  5. Loveness says:

    A cross dresser its fine.There are other that feel the same way.
    But doesn’t pansexual mean you can care less if you are with a man or a woman.

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