Aww You will be ok Tom. Everything will be clean …. wow Im sorry about your brother . you and your brother has a mutual understanding that we don’t like each other….wow I wanna laugh cause this the first time Ive ever heard this .. A mutual understanding that we don’t like each other.,,,that’s a new one. I will have to use that one.
First, you are not “SUPPOSED” to feel any way. Take it easy on yourself and allow yourself to feel how you feel. Sounds like “little tom” was severely hurt and that’s hard to come back from. But just as you said you have changed your life…you are a better person because YOU made it that way! Maybe send him a card and see how it goes. Maybe the new tom can find a resolution since he doesn’t need the approval of others anymore. love you tom! Yeah…you are so not going to sleep the night before
@britsband , All my life he has hurt me !
Sad part is I’m not sure how I feel … But that’s OK.
A card cost too much money, so not worth a card ! LMAO
and I’m being nice,,, LOL
@phillytomcat You are so funny! Ok…sounds like “Tom in general” has been hurt lol And yeah…I guess if he was that bad I wouldn’t pay for shipping either! Lol ! Just forget about him… its time to focus on TOM and what you have accomplished and what you are about to do! Go in your room and pull out your fat chest and just remember why you are doing what your doing…and your jackass brother is probably not part of it!
Your honesty is very rare. Most people in your circumstance would try putting on a facade. You seem to be very in touch with yourself and wont pretend to feel the way society dictates is normal. Very rare but refreshing. Stay honest and it will all work out in the end.
@EZGlutenFree , Thank you , I’ve been through so much growing up that when I put my life under the knife when I had surgery that was the end with playing kid’s games.. I feel so much better about myself as well.. Thank’s again.
What’s not to like about you?? Your brother must be a real piece of work. I am excited for you to have your procedure! You will do great! Good luck to you! Xoxo. Jen
@EZGlutenFree , Thank you , when I started with video’s for my journey I decided to put it all out there cause i really want people to learn from me, so putting it all out there and being honest has been so refreshing for me, this is my therapy and I love it ! Thank’s for your support !
@jenlvsben , Thank you Jen, He really is Jealous of me, even when we bought our house he tried telling everyone that I was lieing about it even tho my Deed is in my Mother’s safe. LMAO
@cabernetqueen , I am on xanax daily so maybe that is another reason I’m calm about it, never thought about that. LOL
I do have my thought’s that come and go now.. LOL
are you getting anything else done other than lipo? i’m excited for you, tom! you deserve to better yourself and don’t let anyone else hold you back. sorry to hear of the news of your brother.
@losingitwithrebecca , No just the lipo, if by chance there is extra skin that need’s to be removed, I can decide after if I want it gone.. Thank’s so much .
Aww You will be ok Tom. Everything will be clean …. wow Im sorry about your brother . you and your brother has a mutual understanding that we don’t like each other….wow I wanna laugh cause this the first time Ive ever heard this .. A mutual understanding that we don’t like each other.,,,that’s a new one. I will have to use that one.
It’s ok not to like someone Tom… it’s ok… just love honey and stay your distance.
@TheFoxyja47 . LOL, I told him right to his face and we agreed ! LOL
@TheFoxyja47 , OMG, yes, I do keep my distance
hope the days fly by until Tue!
First, you are not “SUPPOSED” to feel any way. Take it easy on yourself and allow yourself to feel how you feel. Sounds like “little tom” was severely hurt and that’s hard to come back from. But just as you said you have changed your life…you are a better person because YOU made it that way! Maybe send him a card and see how it goes. Maybe the new tom can find a resolution since he doesn’t need the approval of others anymore. love you tom! Yeah…you are so not going to sleep the night before
@seemego2150 , I hope so ! LOL
I really want this done, but at least I’m not sitting here dwelling on it .. now that could be worse, LOL
@britsband , All my life he has hurt me !
Sad part is I’m not sure how I feel … But that’s OK.
A card cost too much money, so not worth a card ! LMAO
and I’m being nice,,, LOL
@phillytomcat You are so funny! Ok…sounds like “Tom in general” has been hurt lol And yeah…I guess if he was that bad I wouldn’t pay for shipping either! Lol ! Just forget about him… its time to focus on TOM and what you have accomplished and what you are about to do! Go in your room and pull out your fat chest and just remember why you are doing what your doing…and your jackass brother is probably not part of it!
Your honesty is very rare. Most people in your circumstance would try putting on a facade. You seem to be very in touch with yourself and wont pretend to feel the way society dictates is normal. Very rare but refreshing. Stay honest and it will all work out in the end.
@EZGlutenFree , Thank you , I’ve been through so much growing up that when I put my life under the knife when I had surgery that was the end with playing kid’s games.. I feel so much better about myself as well.. Thank’s again.
Hey Tom I just wanted to say good luck with your procedure. I hope everything turns out great.
What’s not to like about you?? Your brother must be a real piece of work. I am excited for you to have your procedure! You will do great! Good luck to you! Xoxo. Jen
i was bonkers the days ahead- until I got xanax! but once it is over — it is all down hill- no more stressing!
@EZGlutenFree , Thank you , when I started with video’s for my journey I decided to put it all out there cause i really want people to learn from me, so putting it all out there and being honest has been so refreshing for me, this is my therapy and I love it ! Thank’s for your support !
@lbencomo , Thank you so much !
@jenlvsben , Thank you Jen, He really is Jealous of me, even when we bought our house he tried telling everyone that I was lieing about it even tho my Deed is in my Mother’s safe. LMAO
@cabernetqueen , I am on xanax daily so maybe that is another reason I’m calm about it, never thought about that. LOL
I do have my thought’s that come and go now.. LOL
are you getting anything else done other than lipo? i’m excited for you, tom! you deserve to better yourself and don’t let anyone else hold you back. sorry to hear of the news of your brother.
@losingitwithrebecca , No just the lipo, if by chance there is extra skin that need’s to be removed, I can decide after if I want it gone.. Thank’s so much .