This was such a real, raw video Tom. You shared a lot of very personal feelings in this. And you know what? Maybe you did this video for yourself but you certainly don’t owe anyone any explanations. You do what you feel is best for you. If this will make you feel better about yourself, then no one has any right to say anything. I understand many of the feelings you shared. I went through much of the same thing growing up. Crazy how it still affects us as adults, huh?
Wow! Very touching. I was bullied all through school. I was 1 of 3 redheads in my grade school, obese, buck toothed, glasses, frizzy hair, freckles, uglyyyyyy…. and was tortured on a daily basis. One of the other kids once tried to drown me in the public pool while the lifeguard just watched and laughed. Bullying scars people for life. I totally understand where you’re coming from. We really have more alike than I first thought. You know I love ya to pieces. I’m here if u ever need to talk. <3
And having said that….I think you are doing something that is going to be somewhat “freeing” for your soul. You need to have this done for you and nobody else, so GO FOR IT and don’t give a second thought to what anybody else says about it. I’m rooting you forward!
Do not worry about what others think, you are doing this to feel better about yourself and that is what counts, ignore the negative and dwell on the positive! Hugs!
I wish I couldn’t relate to all this. But I do… for other parts of my body.
Live your dream sweetie….get that block out of your way and I’m happy for you.
Tom your mind is going to screw with you until surgery. Isn’t it funny how what someone says to you can have such an impact on your life negative or positive just a few little words can make such a difference. You are such a kind, loving, caring person and good things will happen to you. Go make your dream come true!
if doing this surgery will make you feel better about yourself you go for it..all that matters is that you feel better about yourself… you are a awsome man tom and i just love you. cause you speak your mind….
Ask your higher power to lead you in the right direction. Bullying is terrible and without realizing it, even our loved ones did it. I remember being in a dressing room and my mother saying. “good god, if you get any fatter where will we buy your clothes next year” I was probably 9. I have gone back and searched for pictures of this fat ugly little curly headed girl and guess what, she didn’t exist!!!! She was cute, she wasn’t huge, or obese she was chubby with big blue eye and curly hair
I seen this discussed on tv and the dr said that no amount of exercise would fix this problem. It’s great that your finally getting to do this special thing for yourself. Bless you Tom.
Depression is anger turned inward. You should be mad at your aunt for a while then forgive her. You said you were never mad at her. You need to be mad for your own healing. Punch a few pillows pretending its her. Get it out. I get this info from my counselor. I had people in my life I needed to get mad at.
This was such a real, raw video Tom. You shared a lot of very personal feelings in this. And you know what? Maybe you did this video for yourself but you certainly don’t owe anyone any explanations. You do what you feel is best for you. If this will make you feel better about yourself, then no one has any right to say anything. I understand many of the feelings you shared. I went through much of the same thing growing up. Crazy how it still affects us as adults, huh?
Wow! Very touching. I was bullied all through school. I was 1 of 3 redheads in my grade school, obese, buck toothed, glasses, frizzy hair, freckles, uglyyyyyy…. and was tortured on a daily basis. One of the other kids once tried to drown me in the public pool while the lifeguard just watched and laughed. Bullying scars people for life. I totally understand where you’re coming from. We really have more alike than I first thought. You know I love ya to pieces. I’m here if u ever need to talk. <3
And having said that….I think you are doing something that is going to be somewhat “freeing” for your soul. You need to have this done for you and nobody else, so GO FOR IT and don’t give a second thought to what anybody else says about it. I’m rooting you forward!
Do not worry about what others think, you are doing this to feel better about yourself and that is what counts, ignore the negative and dwell on the positive! Hugs!
I wish I couldn’t relate to all this. But I do… for other parts of my body.
Live your dream sweetie….get that block out of your way and I’m happy for you.
Tom your mind is going to screw with you until surgery. Isn’t it funny how what someone says to you can have such an impact on your life negative or positive just a few little words can make such a difference. You are such a kind, loving, caring person and good things will happen to you. Go make your dream come true!
if doing this surgery will make you feel better about yourself you go for it..all that matters is that you feel better about yourself… you are a awsome man tom and i just love you. cause you speak your mind….
Ask your higher power to lead you in the right direction. Bullying is terrible and without realizing it, even our loved ones did it. I remember being in a dressing room and my mother saying. “good god, if you get any fatter where will we buy your clothes next year” I was probably 9. I have gone back and searched for pictures of this fat ugly little curly headed girl and guess what, she didn’t exist!!!! She was cute, she wasn’t huge, or obese she was chubby with big blue eye and curly hair
I seen this discussed on tv and the dr said that no amount of exercise would fix this problem. It’s great that your finally getting to do this special thing for yourself. Bless you Tom.
Depression is anger turned inward. You should be mad at your aunt for a while then forgive her. You said you were never mad at her. You need to be mad for your own healing. Punch a few pillows pretending its her. Get it out. I get this info from my counselor. I had people in my life I needed to get mad at.